You throw the ball to somebody and then stand there waiting for them to throw it back. Locked in on one guy. And the whole time there are balls coming at you from every other direction, from people you never threw anything to. That's what took me a decade. Not learning to give. Learning to look up.

Most people who get out of a place like that measure the distance. Look how far I went. That's the whole scoreboard. Dolly ran the other number. Look how far I went and look what I sent back.