The unexamined pattern becomes the life you’re living on autopilot while the life you actually want keeps getting pushed to someday.

I’ve sat across from people in their fifties who are still carrying a story someone handed them when they were twelve. Not because they’re not intelligent or self-aware — they are both. But because nobody ever gave them a daily practice for looking at it. For putting it on a page and asking:
Is this still true?
Is this still serving me?
Is there a more empowered version of this story that is also true?