What I am going to do is offer you five ways to do this practice that have nothing to do with sitting down with a notebook and a pen and staring at a blank page. Because here’s what I know after two decades of coaching: the principle matters more than the medium.
The four questions workregardless of how you answer them. And if the way most people answer them doesn’t work for you, that’s not a problem with you. That’s just information about how you’re wired.

Let’s find your version.

His name was Rooster.

I don’t know the exact origin of the nickname. I just know that’s what everyone called him, that it suited him completely, and that no one who ever met him forgot him. My grandfather was the kind of person who changed the temperature of a room just by walking into it. Not because he was loud or demanding, though he could certainly hold a room. But because of the energy he brought.

Every single time. As if he’d decided somewhere along the way that walking through a door was an opportunity worth taking seriously.

Every morning, without fail, Rooster woke up and said the same thing.

“Boy, do I have Enthusimatism!”

Not enthusiasm. Not optimism. Enthusimatism.

The unexamined pattern becomes the life you’re living on autopilot while the life you actually want keeps getting pushed to someday.

I’ve sat across from people in their fifties who are still carrying a story someone handed them when they were twelve. Not because they’re not intelligent or self-aware — they are both. But because nobody ever gave them a daily practice for looking at it. For putting it on a page and asking:
Is this still true?
Is this still serving me?
Is there a more empowered version of this story that is also true?