On May 23rd, 1990, Jana was a teenager living a full, active life in rural Kansas when a car accident changed everything in an instant. She was paralyzed from the chest down. At 15 years old, in a moment she didn’t choose and couldn’t have prepared for, the life she had known was completely rearranged.

For weeks, Jana was somewhere in that mix. Fifteen years old. Trying to make sense of something that didn’t make sense. And every night, she cried herself to sleep.

Every night. Until one night she didn’t.

Have you ever been on a world-class vacation—the kind with white sand and zero responsibilities—and found yourself obsessing over a tiny crack in the bathroom tile or the fact that the coffee wasn't quite hot enough?

Or perhaps you’re in a relationship with a truly "Golden" human being, yet you spent your morning commute dwelling on the one annoying way they chew their toast?

If you feel like a "Negative Nancy" (or Ned), I have good news and bad news. The good news: You aren't a bad person.The bad news: Your brain is actively working against your happiness.